"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Killed it tonight at the bar, need a little advice though
- Thread starter Fatal Jay
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
its whenever you want to bro. - just not straight away.if theres interest on their part, its not gonna wear off if you call in 3 instead of 5.
Make it 2 days if you have time then. just base it around YOUR life and what YOU have going on.
You have the wrong attitude there- dont want to "ruin it".
take the mindset that when you call - you are giving them a chance to prove to you that they are worth the time and effort from you, that they are more than just pretty faces.
And how about a FR?
Don't start feeling unworthy because they are a "9."
Contact them whenever the fvck you want! Who cares if it doesn't work out? Experiment with it!
Good luck!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
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Usually the shorter the interaction, the more swiftly I need to move to keep the connection alive. Meaning, I'll shoot her a text the same night I met her.
With girls that I've really connected with, kiss closed at the very least, I wait a few days.
And also don't get your hopes up. With girls you meet in clubs, you never know what's going to happen once their high wears off. Gotten girls numbers at bar close after a 2 minute convo and had them wanting to meet up the next day. Meanwhile, I've spent a long time with girls, thinking I had it in the bag, only to have them never respond to texts/phone calls.
You never know.