Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kill that desperation!

thefonz

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Still the greatest sosuave post of all time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.


So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
 

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lexluciano said:
Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.


So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?

You're taking it too literally. Master Pook meant to move on to another b!tch. Though you could do it that way in extreme cases or in a more subtle form. Or you can disqualify yourself as a potential mate and eject in a friendly manner. You don't have to really do it like that.

Key here is to set your mind into thinking you can get any girl you want, so if this one doesn't give you the respect you so rightly deserve or simply found something you don't like about her, you plainly 'walk away'

Cause' getting chicks is easy for you.
 

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This is the thread that brought me here when I was 21. I think I googled something along the lines of "Why do I feel so desperate?". Almost 4 years later and countless times reading this post, and I learned something new just now as I read it again. Quite possibly the best post on this forum...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ihateinitiatingalot7

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i guess women have evolved to choose men who don't want or need them, although women like to feel they are the most important thing in his life, but they really don't want to
 
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