thefonz
Master Don Juan
Still the greatest sosuave post of all time.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kill that desperation!
- Thread starter Pook
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I love Hyori Lee
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last bump..I promise. This is for visitors for LS.
lexluciano
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Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.
So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
lexluciano said:
You're taking it too literally. Master Pook meant to move on to another b!tch. Though you could do it that way in extreme cases or in a more subtle form. Or you can disqualify yourself as a potential mate and eject in a friendly manner. You don't have to really do it like that.
Key here is to set your mind into thinking you can get any girl you want, so if this one doesn't give you the respect you so rightly deserve or simply found something you don't like about her, you plainly 'walk away'
Cause' getting chicks is easy for you.
imarockstar
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This is the thread that brought me here when I was 21. I think I googled something along the lines of "Why do I feel so desperate?". Almost 4 years later and countless times reading this post, and I learned something new just now as I read it again. Quite possibly the best post on this forum...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ihateinitiatingalot7
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i guess women have evolved to choose men who don't want or need them, although women like to feel they are the most important thing in his life, but they really don't want to
Cappo Yung
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I like this style of writing. Thanks bro bro
DEEZEDBRAH
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The post is money.