"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kill that desperation!

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Still the greatest sosuave post of all time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.


So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
 
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lexluciano said:
Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.


So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
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You're taking it too literally. Master Pook meant to move on to another b!tch. Though you could do it that way in extreme cases or in a more subtle form. Or you can disqualify yourself as a potential mate and eject in a friendly manner. You don't have to really do it like that.

Key here is to set your mind into thinking you can get any girl you want, so if this one doesn't give you the respect you so rightly deserve or simply found something you don't like about her, you plainly 'walk away'

Cause' getting chicks is easy for you.
 
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This is the thread that brought me here when I was 21. I think I googled something along the lines of "Why do I feel so desperate?". Almost 4 years later and countless times reading this post, and I learned something new just now as I read it again. Quite possibly the best post on this forum...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i guess women have evolved to choose men who don't want or need them, although women like to feel they are the most important thing in his life, but they really don't want to
 
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