"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kill that desperation!

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Still the greatest sosuave post of all time.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.


So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
 
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lexluciano said:
Prince Charming wouldn't accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.


So if a girl disrespects you / gives you a foul talk....you don't respond?? Just walk away?
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You're taking it too literally. Master Pook meant to move on to another b!tch. Though you could do it that way in extreme cases or in a more subtle form. Or you can disqualify yourself as a potential mate and eject in a friendly manner. You don't have to really do it like that.

Key here is to set your mind into thinking you can get any girl you want, so if this one doesn't give you the respect you so rightly deserve or simply found something you don't like about her, you plainly 'walk away'

Cause' getting chicks is easy for you.
 
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This is the thread that brought me here when I was 21. I think I googled something along the lines of "Why do I feel so desperate?". Almost 4 years later and countless times reading this post, and I learned something new just now as I read it again. Quite possibly the best post on this forum...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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i guess women have evolved to choose men who don't want or need them, although women like to feel they are the most important thing in his life, but they really don't want to
 
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