"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
 

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You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
This.
Also verbal guidance from time to time is good too.

For example,
I taught my 9yo kid how to sell his old stuff on ebay, how to take pics, list it, and price it accordingly as well as check the ebay market for the things he likes and keep up on top of it. He did it all himself and made $300 in the first month. This isn't directly related obviously but he can take some of those skills and apply it elsewhere in life.

Edit: As to how you can guide them on redpill and such, they will really look at you to see how you interact with your significant other, whether it be a GF or Wife. Just be aware of that. Once again that is teaching them with your actions/behaviour towards the opposite sex.
 
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solid advice so far.

they get business already, as that is something I get easily. they get a lot of attention from the peers and seem good with it. so maybe it is just happening and the right approach is don't mess with something that is working.

just good leadership and open eyes and ears should be enough.
 

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You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
I am not an incel, not even close. However most if not all red pill content was completely new information to me at a very old age. I know how unbelievable that sounds. Don't want that situation for the kids.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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just good leadership and open eyes and ears should be enough.
I'm gonna say this is not enough sometimes. I constantly remind my sons and try to both be hard and at the same time nurturing enough not to be intimidating to them in case they have any issues and need to seek out advice from someone. I try to always tell them that they can come to me with any questions or advice they may want. Actions are effective but also equal amounts of communication is helpful as well.

For example, if one of my son's got bullied, I would want him to come to me to talk about it instead of just holding it in as he may see me in a tough guy kind of light sometimes.
 

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
I am childless. I would have liked my father to have taught me red pill or SMV related stuff. I learned it all from reading on the internet.
 

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get them to appreciate business dealings and the rewards that come from it at a very early age. You also have to get it in their head before they get to the age where they reject everything they're taught.

Above all else, be there for them and have the time to spend with them doing fun stuff
 
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