Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
 

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You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
This.
Also verbal guidance from time to time is good too.

For example,
I taught my 9yo kid how to sell his old stuff on ebay, how to take pics, list it, and price it accordingly as well as check the ebay market for the things he likes and keep up on top of it. He did it all himself and made $300 in the first month. This isn't directly related obviously but he can take some of those skills and apply it elsewhere in life.

Edit: As to how you can guide them on redpill and such, they will really look at you to see how you interact with your significant other, whether it be a GF or Wife. Just be aware of that. Once again that is teaching them with your actions/behaviour towards the opposite sex.
 
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solid advice so far.

they get business already, as that is something I get easily. they get a lot of attention from the peers and seem good with it. so maybe it is just happening and the right approach is don't mess with something that is working.

just good leadership and open eyes and ears should be enough.
 

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You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
I am not an incel, not even close. However most if not all red pill content was completely new information to me at a very old age. I know how unbelievable that sounds. Don't want that situation for the kids.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just good leadership and open eyes and ears should be enough.
I'm gonna say this is not enough sometimes. I constantly remind my sons and try to both be hard and at the same time nurturing enough not to be intimidating to them in case they have any issues and need to seek out advice from someone. I try to always tell them that they can come to me with any questions or advice they may want. Actions are effective but also equal amounts of communication is helpful as well.

For example, if one of my son's got bullied, I would want him to come to me to talk about it instead of just holding it in as he may see me in a tough guy kind of light sometimes.
 

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
I am childless. I would have liked my father to have taught me red pill or SMV related stuff. I learned it all from reading on the internet.
 

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get them to appreciate business dealings and the rewards that come from it at a very early age. You also have to get it in their head before they get to the age where they reject everything they're taught.

Above all else, be there for them and have the time to spend with them doing fun stuff
 
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