"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you teach your kids about smv and red pill? for boys ? for girls ? How do you teach that ?
You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
 

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You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
This.
Also verbal guidance from time to time is good too.

For example,
I taught my 9yo kid how to sell his old stuff on ebay, how to take pics, list it, and price it accordingly as well as check the ebay market for the things he likes and keep up on top of it. He did it all himself and made $300 in the first month. This isn't directly related obviously but he can take some of those skills and apply it elsewhere in life.

Edit: As to how you can guide them on redpill and such, they will really look at you to see how you interact with your significant other, whether it be a GF or Wife. Just be aware of that. Once again that is teaching them with your actions/behaviour towards the opposite sex.
 
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solid advice so far.

they get business already, as that is something I get easily. they get a lot of attention from the peers and seem good with it. so maybe it is just happening and the right approach is don't mess with something that is working.

just good leadership and open eyes and ears should be enough.
 

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You teach them with your actions, by being a good role model. You should never have to describe red pill/blue pill or smv, those concepts are really just a pseudo science made for incels to feel better and a poor attempt to reverse engineer the ambiguous art of relationships.

Instill good values by being a role model that they look up to and support them in their endeavors.
I am not an incel, not even close. However most if not all red pill content was completely new information to me at a very old age. I know how unbelievable that sounds. Don't want that situation for the kids.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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just good leadership and open eyes and ears should be enough.
I'm gonna say this is not enough sometimes. I constantly remind my sons and try to both be hard and at the same time nurturing enough not to be intimidating to them in case they have any issues and need to seek out advice from someone. I try to always tell them that they can come to me with any questions or advice they may want. Actions are effective but also equal amounts of communication is helpful as well.

For example, if one of my son's got bullied, I would want him to come to me to talk about it instead of just holding it in as he may see me in a tough guy kind of light sometimes.
 

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I am childless. I would have liked my father to have taught me red pill or SMV related stuff. I learned it all from reading on the internet.
 

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get them to appreciate business dealings and the rewards that come from it at a very early age. You also have to get it in their head before they get to the age where they reject everything they're taught.

Above all else, be there for them and have the time to spend with them doing fun stuff
 
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