"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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keeping a relationship fresh!

the_azn_fu

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hey! an LTR question..
anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
and things NOT to do to burn things out quick?
late night conversations are a no no. i know that, but how do you avoid them? any good excuses?

thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my advice is not to even think about it like that, if you love eachother thats it, talk to eachother like it, your connection together will end up making it all worth while. :yes:

That'd be my advice but you get the point :) .
 

Desdinova

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anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
Flirt with her (just like you did when you were initially dating) and have fun! Why most guys feel the need to "settle" and get lazy in the relationship after they get the woman is beyond me.
 

sac_hot_male

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ok i have a q's i needed to ask...when your dating do you still use these:

-****y and funny
-push/pull
-neg-hit

which one are you suppose to be using and which one are you NOT suppose to be using...i'm just a bit confuse because once your on a relationship, its a bit different from just flirting
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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