"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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keeping a relationship fresh!

the_azn_fu

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hey! an LTR question..
anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
and things NOT to do to burn things out quick?
late night conversations are a no no. i know that, but how do you avoid them? any good excuses?

thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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my advice is not to even think about it like that, if you love eachother thats it, talk to eachother like it, your connection together will end up making it all worth while. :yes:

That'd be my advice but you get the point :) .
 

Desdinova

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anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
Flirt with her (just like you did when you were initially dating) and have fun! Why most guys feel the need to "settle" and get lazy in the relationship after they get the woman is beyond me.
 

sac_hot_male

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ok i have a q's i needed to ask...when your dating do you still use these:

-****y and funny
-push/pull
-neg-hit

which one are you suppose to be using and which one are you NOT suppose to be using...i'm just a bit confuse because once your on a relationship, its a bit different from just flirting
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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