"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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keeping a relationship fresh!

the_azn_fu

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hey! an LTR question..
anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
and things NOT to do to burn things out quick?
late night conversations are a no no. i know that, but how do you avoid them? any good excuses?

thanks!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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my advice is not to even think about it like that, if you love eachother thats it, talk to eachother like it, your connection together will end up making it all worth while. :yes:

That'd be my advice but you get the point :) .
 

Desdinova

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anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
Flirt with her (just like you did when you were initially dating) and have fun! Why most guys feel the need to "settle" and get lazy in the relationship after they get the woman is beyond me.
 

sac_hot_male

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ok i have a q's i needed to ask...when your dating do you still use these:

-****y and funny
-push/pull
-neg-hit

which one are you suppose to be using and which one are you NOT suppose to be using...i'm just a bit confuse because once your on a relationship, its a bit different from just flirting
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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