"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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keeping a relationship fresh!

the_azn_fu

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hey! an LTR question..
anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
and things NOT to do to burn things out quick?
late night conversations are a no no. i know that, but how do you avoid them? any good excuses?

thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my advice is not to even think about it like that, if you love eachother thats it, talk to eachother like it, your connection together will end up making it all worth while. :yes:

That'd be my advice but you get the point :) .
 

Desdinova

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anyone know of some ways to keep a relationship interesting and fresh!?
Flirt with her (just like you did when you were initially dating) and have fun! Why most guys feel the need to "settle" and get lazy in the relationship after they get the woman is beyond me.
 

sac_hot_male

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ok i have a q's i needed to ask...when your dating do you still use these:

-****y and funny
-push/pull
-neg-hit

which one are you suppose to be using and which one are you NOT suppose to be using...i'm just a bit confuse because once your on a relationship, its a bit different from just flirting
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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