"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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K close: Bookstore approach

n00bPimp

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I went to the bookstore looking for targets. Found a couple of HBs in the history section then another HB wondered into the section. Somehow this section seems to be the spot for HBs. I stood there for about 5 mins pretending to be looking for somthing. I waited for the section to get a little less crowded to approach this HB7 (violation of the 3 second rule i know but somehow I didn't feel any hesitation because I knew how I was going to open). She seemed like the nerdy type.

me: Its funny but they have nothing about Lenin anywhere here.
She: (smlied) oh really?
Me: Yes i looked all over
She: *looks around and finds a book on Lenin*
Me: oh sweet thanx. And you dont even work here right? lol
She: (smiles) na.
I noticed she had a huge bag one of those with the wheels at the bottom
Me: (no smile) So are you homeless or sumthing? what do you have in there?
She: (stares at me like if trying to figure me out then smiles) no!.. blah blah blah...
Me: then I did rapport building + kino for about 5 minutes then I did the eyes pattern. The sexual tension was there. At this point we were staring deep into each others eyes and not saying a word. this lasted for like 5 secs but man did it seem like 5 hrs. Then I knew what had to be done.. I kissed her right then and there. Took her # and left.

Its funny because I entered the store with a goal of at least 5 #'s. but after my first approach I felt like my job there was done. haha. The girl must be thinking "wtf just happened?" She doesnt know this is just another day in the life of n00bPimp.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hahaha, awesome. Keep up the good work man. Cheers!

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Good job, n00bPimp.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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