"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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K close: Bookstore approach

n00bPimp

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I went to the bookstore looking for targets. Found a couple of HBs in the history section then another HB wondered into the section. Somehow this section seems to be the spot for HBs. I stood there for about 5 mins pretending to be looking for somthing. I waited for the section to get a little less crowded to approach this HB7 (violation of the 3 second rule i know but somehow I didn't feel any hesitation because I knew how I was going to open). She seemed like the nerdy type.

me: Its funny but they have nothing about Lenin anywhere here.
She: (smlied) oh really?
Me: Yes i looked all over
She: *looks around and finds a book on Lenin*
Me: oh sweet thanx. And you dont even work here right? lol
She: (smiles) na.
I noticed she had a huge bag one of those with the wheels at the bottom
Me: (no smile) So are you homeless or sumthing? what do you have in there?
She: (stares at me like if trying to figure me out then smiles) no!.. blah blah blah...
Me: then I did rapport building + kino for about 5 minutes then I did the eyes pattern. The sexual tension was there. At this point we were staring deep into each others eyes and not saying a word. this lasted for like 5 secs but man did it seem like 5 hrs. Then I knew what had to be done.. I kissed her right then and there. Took her # and left.

Its funny because I entered the store with a goal of at least 5 #'s. but after my first approach I felt like my job there was done. haha. The girl must be thinking "wtf just happened?" She doesnt know this is just another day in the life of n00bPimp.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hahaha, awesome. Keep up the good work man. Cheers!

-drtk
 
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Good job, n00bPimp.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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