"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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K close: Bookstore approach

n00bPimp

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I went to the bookstore looking for targets. Found a couple of HBs in the history section then another HB wondered into the section. Somehow this section seems to be the spot for HBs. I stood there for about 5 mins pretending to be looking for somthing. I waited for the section to get a little less crowded to approach this HB7 (violation of the 3 second rule i know but somehow I didn't feel any hesitation because I knew how I was going to open). She seemed like the nerdy type.

me: Its funny but they have nothing about Lenin anywhere here.
She: (smlied) oh really?
Me: Yes i looked all over
She: *looks around and finds a book on Lenin*
Me: oh sweet thanx. And you dont even work here right? lol
She: (smiles) na.
I noticed she had a huge bag one of those with the wheels at the bottom
Me: (no smile) So are you homeless or sumthing? what do you have in there?
She: (stares at me like if trying to figure me out then smiles) no!.. blah blah blah...
Me: then I did rapport building + kino for about 5 minutes then I did the eyes pattern. The sexual tension was there. At this point we were staring deep into each others eyes and not saying a word. this lasted for like 5 secs but man did it seem like 5 hrs. Then I knew what had to be done.. I kissed her right then and there. Took her # and left.

Its funny because I entered the store with a goal of at least 5 #'s. but after my first approach I felt like my job there was done. haha. The girl must be thinking "wtf just happened?" She doesnt know this is just another day in the life of n00bPimp.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hahaha, awesome. Keep up the good work man. Cheers!

-drtk
 
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Good job, n00bPimp.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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