"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Depends on the girl and her BF?... can you please provide scenarios.milrenkb said:Your question is way to open man. Hate to give you this generic answer but it depends on the girl and her boyfriend. However you shouldn't be worried about that. Theres plenty of cool girls out there you can make friends with as a way of gaining access to other social networks.
Well as for this girl.. she usually comes down and works at my store during vacations from school for 1-2 months and goes back UC Long Beach at the end of her break .. Im assuming her BF lives in L.A. where she goes to school.
Chosen1
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If you had interest in her, it would be a lot easier to be just friends with her.
LOL.. Just fall in love with her or something.
She'll see you as harmless and want you to hang around and have harmless fun.
- If she's really hot. That's probally what is happening.
If she's not that hot, then she could just not be use to having guy as just friends and have only ever hung out with girls.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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seee.. thats what I would say to a girl that I would want to get in her panties NSA.... i.e. ohhh just "friends"... I am harmless.... lol... if she hot, and she drunk and asks for you to put your finger in her ass... I am sure you wouldDJnoob said:So, IT IS harder to make friend (meaning exchanging numbers and hanging out) with women with boyfriends? I'm talking about friends as in just friends like your male friends. No interest whatsoever in her.
lol
Nope. I just want her as social proof. But if it ever comes across.. hey, why not.Bvbidd said:DJN finally makes a good point.
DJnoob your telling me you want to spend time with her but would never ever do anything sexual with her ever?