Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Hi, I had fun trading emails with you but I'm really not feeling the chemistry. I wish you best of luck in all your endeavors..."
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just Saw Her Photo and No Longer Interested
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Chill, man. At least you didn't go further and really mess her up.
diplomatic_lies
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I don't feel guilty for having standards. However if the girl is really nice and has a good heart, I do feel a bit sorry for her.
(Mind you, some ugly girls are real *******s, but some of them are really nice, and I'm not much of a looker myself, so I do feel a twinge of discomfort)
(Mind you, some ugly girls are real *******s, but some of them are really nice, and I'm not much of a looker myself, so I do feel a twinge of discomfort)
I'm getting the feeling here that the harder you're going to try to get rid of her, the more she'll be into you. One of those reverse mind games haha
I say go out and if you see things going in the wrong direction, let her know the next day by email or phone call. Girls reserve the right to ljbf-us so we reserve the right to do the same.
I say go out and if you see things going in the wrong direction, let her know the next day by email or phone call. Girls reserve the right to ljbf-us so we reserve the right to do the same.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Even ugly people are shallow. It's human nature, we all like looking at pretty things.
BTW - Say that you have to split the bill before you head out to a restaurant because your broke. Watch her run a mile.
If that doesn't work I would meet her in person, if you don't then she will know it's because of her looks and that will hurt her. Do you really want to do that when you could just take her out once and act like a dufus to put her off, it could be fun.
BTW - Say that you have to split the bill before you head out to a restaurant because your broke. Watch her run a mile.
If that doesn't work I would meet her in person, if you don't then she will know it's because of her looks and that will hurt her. Do you really want to do that when you could just take her out once and act like a dufus to put her off, it could be fun.
"Funny thing is that I'm waiting for another girl to respond to a pic I sent with an email. It's been about three hours. I guess she saw my photo and was no longer interested. Hahaha!"
Yea and because she's a girl - you can bet she won't give a damn about letting you down easy.
Yea and because she's a girl - you can bet she won't give a damn about letting you down easy.
you don't have to prove anything and you shouldn't feel guilty either. if you don't like her, no need to continue wasting time on her. it's all part of the game. it's her problem if she cant' handle getting dissed.Juan_Man said:
I never said that I was a hunk like Brad Pitt, I am handsome enough though not to have to date an ugly girl and during the times that I have not got a hot babe in my life I prefer to fu-ck an inflatable sex doll than pick up some ugly bi-tch from a bar to fu-ck her.d9930380 said:
I am very fussy when it comes to the girls that I go out with, some hot babes like me and others don't, but as long as one out of every one hundred of the hot babes that I meet are attracted to me then I always have one that I can date.
I guess I only consider dating about 30% of the girls that I see, but you don't have to be a hunk like Brad Pitt to date a HB7 HB8 or a HB9, and if I play my cards right I can get one of these girls.
As far as being a TROLL goes, I don't even know what one is, I have often read the term on many other threads, I know from these that it is a negative term, but maybe someone could fill me in on what it really is.
I am happy with the way that I look, it is the least of my problems, but I think that I about 30% of all guys are better looking than me, if I was a girl I would be a HB7 I would think. :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.