thelonewolflegend
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I dont mind doing it once but what do you say afterwards if you dont want to?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
just question bout girl wanting gas money
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Say nopp you don't deserve it with a playful smile and start about something else. If shes your committed girlfriend that buys you stuff too once a while you can do it. Keep the 50/50 balance with her, if shes doing this often without giving you something, tell her that she has to take care of her stuff as (i suppose) she works.
Never let women take advantage of you, once she sees you as a victim she will use you.
If she likes you: and you show her boundaries and that you can move on easily without looking back when she disrespects you she will come back.
hope that helped
Never let women take advantage of you, once she sees you as a victim she will use you.
If she likes you: and you show her boundaries and that you can move on easily without looking back when she disrespects you she will come back.
hope that helped
RedScorpion
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Unless she's your girlfriend, and she's really in a bind, I'd say no. As in "No" and give her a look like she's crazy. Even if she was your girlfriend, doing it more than one in a long while is very odd (on her part for asking, and yours for complying).
I don't mind, and actually like doing spontaneous favours for someone (without their asking, such as buying coffee for the group, offering supper if they have just driven me somewhere, etc.), but I am reluctant if it's about money (unless it's an emergency). Asking for gas money though, non-emergency - that is not your concern what-so-ever, and should be a giant, massive RED FLAG. Male or female.
If your gut is telling you something, follow it. This seems off to me.
I don't mind, and actually like doing spontaneous favours for someone (without their asking, such as buying coffee for the group, offering supper if they have just driven me somewhere, etc.), but I am reluctant if it's about money (unless it's an emergency). Asking for gas money though, non-emergency - that is not your concern what-so-ever, and should be a giant, massive RED FLAG. Male or female.
If your gut is telling you something, follow it. This seems off to me.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If she really needs the money, you're a cheapskate to not pay it...if you are already fvcking her. Otherwise you're a chump if you pay.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Nop dont say that, it will make her feel like a ***** and you expecting sex in return. It will raise anti slut defense instantly and she will close you down. If you wanna give it, give her a great smile give it to her. After about 10mins you start to kino heavily and escalate, if she refuses you tell her its ok, drop her off politley and go ghostn00bPimp said:
I was seeing a girl a few years ago who asked borrow money her condo fee and gas money right after I starting seeing her, like a fool I gave it her her. If it ever happens again, I would say sorry I don't loan money to anyone.
If she asked straight up for me to give her money I would say I don't mind paying for our dates, but I'm not giving away my money to anyone.
In your case you just started seeing her right? It's only going to get worse, don't give her any money for anything, If she has a problem with that next her.
If she asked straight up for me to give her money I would say I don't mind paying for our dates, but I'm not giving away my money to anyone.
In your case you just started seeing her right? It's only going to get worse, don't give her any money for anything, If she has a problem with that next her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
Is she asking for gas money because she's driving far to come see you?
Or is she just a broke local chick?
Or is she just a broke local chick?
thelonewolflegend
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She lives like 25 minutes away stays in maplewood works walgreens and yeah she seems dirty her ***** smells and she told me she doesnt know how many guys she slept with and said just remember faces. I am not hitting her up anymore i am gonna still look and stick to my decent girl i got for now.
apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
Yikes, smart move for sure.