“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheGambino

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Say nopp you don't deserve it with a playful smile and start about something else. If shes your committed girlfriend that buys you stuff too once a while you can do it. Keep the 50/50 balance with her, if shes doing this often without giving you something, tell her that she has to take care of her stuff as (i suppose) she works.

Never let women take advantage of you, once she sees you as a victim she will use you.

If she likes you: and you show her boundaries and that you can move on easily without looking back when she disrespects you she will come back.

hope that helped
 

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Unless she's your girlfriend, and she's really in a bind, I'd say no. As in "No" and give her a look like she's crazy. Even if she was your girlfriend, doing it more than one in a long while is very odd (on her part for asking, and yours for complying).

I don't mind, and actually like doing spontaneous favours for someone (without their asking, such as buying coffee for the group, offering supper if they have just driven me somewhere, etc.), but I am reluctant if it's about money (unless it's an emergency). Asking for gas money though, non-emergency - that is not your concern what-so-ever, and should be a giant, massive RED FLAG. Male or female.

If your gut is telling you something, follow it. This seems off to me.
 

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If she really needs the money, you're a cheapskate to not pay it...if you are already fvcking her. Otherwise you're a chump if you pay.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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n00bPimp said:
"What do i get in return"
If you cant say this then i feel bad for you.
Nop dont say that, it will make her feel like a ***** and you expecting sex in return. It will raise anti slut defense instantly and she will close you down. If you wanna give it, give her a great smile give it to her. After about 10mins you start to kino heavily and escalate, if she refuses you tell her its ok, drop her off politley and go ghost
 

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I was seeing a girl a few years ago who asked borrow money her condo fee and gas money right after I starting seeing her, like a fool I gave it her her. If it ever happens again, I would say sorry I don't loan money to anyone.

If she asked straight up for me to give her money I would say I don't mind paying for our dates, but I'm not giving away my money to anyone.

In your case you just started seeing her right? It's only going to get worse, don't give her any money for anything, If she has a problem with that next her.
 

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Mauser96 said:
A few more details would help.

I think it is ok to help..........but maybe in a week or so you should ask HER for 10 bucks for gas, and see what her response is?

Then THAT is the response you begin to use from now on.
Great response Mauser
 

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TheGambino said:
Nop dont say that, it will make her feel like a ***** and you expecting sex in return. It will raise anti slut defense instantly and she will close you down. If you wanna give it, give her a great smile give it to her. After about 10mins you start to kino heavily and escalate, if she refuses you tell her its ok, drop her off politley and go ghost
Dont assume.
If she thinks you're going for sex then you blame it on her for having a dirty mind and even accusse her of seeing you as another piece of meat.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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She lives like 25 minutes away stays in maplewood works walgreens and yeah she seems dirty her ***** smells and she told me she doesnt know how many guys she slept with and said just remember faces. I am not hitting her up anymore i am gonna still look and stick to my decent girl i got for now.
 
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