thelonewolflegend
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I dont mind doing it once but what do you say afterwards if you dont want to?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
just question bout girl wanting gas money
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Say nopp you don't deserve it with a playful smile and start about something else. If shes your committed girlfriend that buys you stuff too once a while you can do it. Keep the 50/50 balance with her, if shes doing this often without giving you something, tell her that she has to take care of her stuff as (i suppose) she works.
Never let women take advantage of you, once she sees you as a victim she will use you.
If she likes you: and you show her boundaries and that you can move on easily without looking back when she disrespects you she will come back.
hope that helped
Never let women take advantage of you, once she sees you as a victim she will use you.
If she likes you: and you show her boundaries and that you can move on easily without looking back when she disrespects you she will come back.
hope that helped
RedScorpion
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Unless she's your girlfriend, and she's really in a bind, I'd say no. As in "No" and give her a look like she's crazy. Even if she was your girlfriend, doing it more than one in a long while is very odd (on her part for asking, and yours for complying).
I don't mind, and actually like doing spontaneous favours for someone (without their asking, such as buying coffee for the group, offering supper if they have just driven me somewhere, etc.), but I am reluctant if it's about money (unless it's an emergency). Asking for gas money though, non-emergency - that is not your concern what-so-ever, and should be a giant, massive RED FLAG. Male or female.
If your gut is telling you something, follow it. This seems off to me.
I don't mind, and actually like doing spontaneous favours for someone (without their asking, such as buying coffee for the group, offering supper if they have just driven me somewhere, etc.), but I am reluctant if it's about money (unless it's an emergency). Asking for gas money though, non-emergency - that is not your concern what-so-ever, and should be a giant, massive RED FLAG. Male or female.
If your gut is telling you something, follow it. This seems off to me.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
If she really needs the money, you're a cheapskate to not pay it...if you are already fvcking her. Otherwise you're a chump if you pay.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Nop dont say that, it will make her feel like a ***** and you expecting sex in return. It will raise anti slut defense instantly and she will close you down. If you wanna give it, give her a great smile give it to her. After about 10mins you start to kino heavily and escalate, if she refuses you tell her its ok, drop her off politley and go ghostn00bPimp said:
I was seeing a girl a few years ago who asked borrow money her condo fee and gas money right after I starting seeing her, like a fool I gave it her her. If it ever happens again, I would say sorry I don't loan money to anyone.
If she asked straight up for me to give her money I would say I don't mind paying for our dates, but I'm not giving away my money to anyone.
In your case you just started seeing her right? It's only going to get worse, don't give her any money for anything, If she has a problem with that next her.
If she asked straight up for me to give her money I would say I don't mind paying for our dates, but I'm not giving away my money to anyone.
In your case you just started seeing her right? It's only going to get worse, don't give her any money for anything, If she has a problem with that next her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
Is she asking for gas money because she's driving far to come see you?
Or is she just a broke local chick?
Or is she just a broke local chick?
thelonewolflegend
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She lives like 25 minutes away stays in maplewood works walgreens and yeah she seems dirty her ***** smells and she told me she doesnt know how many guys she slept with and said just remember faces. I am not hitting her up anymore i am gonna still look and stick to my decent girl i got for now.
apprenticedj
Senior Don Juan
Yikes, smart move for sure.