just question bout girl wanting gas money

[thelonewolflegend]

I dont mind doing it once but what do you say afterwards if you dont want to?

 

[TheGambino]

Say nopp you don't deserve it with a playful smile and start about something else. If shes your committed girlfriend that buys you stuff too once a while you can do it. Keep the 50/50 balance with her, if shes doing this often without giving you something, tell her that she has to take care of her stuff as (i suppose) she works.

Never let women take advantage of you, once she sees you as a victim she will use you.

If she likes you: and you show her boundaries and that you can move on easily without looking back when she disrespects you she will come back.

hope that helped

 

[RedScorpion]

Unless she's your girlfriend, and she's really in a bind, I'd say no. As in "No" and give her a look like she's crazy. Even if she was your girlfriend, doing it more than one in a long while is very odd (on her part for asking, and yours for complying).

I don't mind, and actually like doing spontaneous favours for someone (without their asking, such as buying coffee for the group, offering supper if they have just driven me somewhere, etc.), but I am reluctant if it's about money (unless it's an emergency). Asking for gas money though, non-emergency - that is not your concern what-so-ever, and should be a giant, massive RED FLAG. Male or female.

If your gut is telling you something, follow it. This seems off to me.

 

[skinnyguy]

Ask for a bj first

 

[Bible_Belt]

If she really needs the money, you're a cheapskate to not pay it...if you are already fvcking her. Otherwise you're a chump if you pay.

 

[n00bPimp]

"What do i get in return"
If you cant say this then i feel bad for you.

 

[TheGambino]

"What do i get in return"
If you cant say this then i feel bad for you.

Nop dont say that, it will make her feel like a ***** and you expecting sex in return. It will raise anti slut defense instantly and she will close you down. If you wanna give it, give her a great smile give it to her. After about 10mins you start to kino heavily and escalate, if she refuses you tell her its ok, drop her off politley and go ghost

 

[Willard]

I was seeing a girl a few years ago who asked borrow money her condo fee and gas money right after I starting seeing her, like a fool I gave it her her. If it ever happens again, I would say sorry I don't loan money to anyone.

If she asked straight up for me to give her money I would say I don't mind paying for our dates, but I'm not giving away my money to anyone.

In your case you just started seeing her right? It's only going to get worse, don't give her any money for anything, If she has a problem with that next her.

 

[skinnyguy]

A few more details would help.

I think it is ok to help..........but maybe in a week or so you should ask HER for 10 bucks for gas, and see what her response is?

Then THAT is the response you begin to use from now on.

Great response Mauser

 

[n00bPimp]

Nop dont say that, it will make her feel like a ***** and you expecting sex in return. It will raise anti slut defense instantly and she will close you down. If you wanna give it, give her a great smile give it to her. After about 10mins you start to kino heavily and escalate, if she refuses you tell her its ok, drop her off politley and go ghost

Dont assume.
If she thinks you're going for sex then you blame it on her for having a dirty mind and even accusse her of seeing you as another piece of meat.

 

[apprenticedj]

Is she asking for gas money because she's driving far to come see you?

Or is she just a broke local chick?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

She lives like 25 minutes away stays in maplewood works walgreens and yeah she seems dirty her ***** smells and she told me she doesnt know how many guys she slept with and said just remember faces. I am not hitting her up anymore i am gonna still look and stick to my decent girl i got for now.

 

[apprenticedj]

Yikes, smart move for sure.