Just one of my thoughts...

[white cloud 8]

I just got off the phone with this girl (cute asian) that is in one of my classes @ university, anyway we're just conversing and I occasionally make a C+F reply to some of her comments e.g.

"She asks: don't you pamper yourself?"

"Me: I work out and play sports, thats how I stay good-looking, I know you like it"

"She replies: I think I'm gonna barf"
*laughs afterwards*

But yeah, she would be telling me all these things about other asian guys blah, blah, blah...and saying that she doesn't want to commit if the guy doesn't pay enough attention to her blah, blah, blah...oh yeah, she said that on her b-day night out to a club that I would be one of her gf's . I was like "Hell no, I like my penis thank you very much", she laughed but yeah, she has a weird vibe to her.

Anyway, the conclusion I came to is I can't make every girl fall for me or have the intention that every girl I meet is going to take a liking to me romantically (it just doesn't happen that way). It doesn't mean however that its nice to have female friends, which I think she is (for now maybe...). I just tell myself that there are plenty of girls out there, so what if one doesn't take a liking to you.

 

[Fender]

Definately agree with ya there. Trying to have EVERYONE like you is just setting yourself up for failure.

However, a thing with having female friends...

given the choice, would you rather hang out with a bunch of guy friends or female friends (in a non-sexual context)

I dunno bout' you, but I always enjoy myself more in the company of guys- we just have more in common.

the only time when i like haging out with girls is when theres sex involved

 

[white cloud 8]

I agree with you there, I have *MORE* in common with my guy friends than girls but, then I get surprised because some girls (I know) are interested in some of the same things I am, which is cou'. I don't know, I just have to be happy with who I am and whoever I meet well...we'll see what happens.

 

[tmpgstx]

No you won't get every girl you try for. If you *really* understand how natural attraction works then you'd know that there isn't anything you can say or do if a girl isn't attracted to you naturally in any way shape or form.

 

[white cloud 8]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
No you won't get every girl you try for. If you *really* understand how natural attraction works then you'd know that there isn't anything you can say or do if a girl isn't attracted to you naturally in any way shape or form.

Thanx for the reinforcement , things are looking up for me.

 

[arlanda]

I like to hang out with girls more than with guys. Free practice, lol.