"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just noticed how confident I've become...

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So tonight my friends and I went to a sports bar, and I saw one of my friends from high school there. (We graduated around 5 years ago)

At one point, I liked the girl, cuz she was hottt. Definately my type.

We were never close...actually we were more acquantainces than friends..but I called her name and she gave me an excited hug...and after talking for a second, sat herself down at my table.

Then I noticed...wow, she doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore.

She didn't gain weight. She didn't look any worse. She looked the same! She was hot! But then I thought of something else...

I saw my friend's gf a couple weeks ago, and I always thought she was the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen. When I saw her a couple weeks ago, I was like, yeah, she's ok. I was confused as to how she was soo hot before? (Last time I saw her was nearly a year beforehand)

Then I realized...it's because I became way more confident!

I don't have a problem talking to hot women, and it apparently shows now. I was putting them on a pedestal, and would bask in their angelic glows, but not anymore!



Don't get me wrong...they were both hot girls, but I realized they weren't superhuman, and that I could carry on a conversation with them just as easily as with anyone else. Reality checked in!

So there's some inspiration for some of you guys. Eventually approaching that HB9 wil be just as easy as a HB7!

Anyone else have this happen?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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