"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just noticed how confident I've become...

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So tonight my friends and I went to a sports bar, and I saw one of my friends from high school there. (We graduated around 5 years ago)

At one point, I liked the girl, cuz she was hottt. Definately my type.

We were never close...actually we were more acquantainces than friends..but I called her name and she gave me an excited hug...and after talking for a second, sat herself down at my table.

Then I noticed...wow, she doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore.

She didn't gain weight. She didn't look any worse. She looked the same! She was hot! But then I thought of something else...

I saw my friend's gf a couple weeks ago, and I always thought she was the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen. When I saw her a couple weeks ago, I was like, yeah, she's ok. I was confused as to how she was soo hot before? (Last time I saw her was nearly a year beforehand)

Then I realized...it's because I became way more confident!

I don't have a problem talking to hot women, and it apparently shows now. I was putting them on a pedestal, and would bask in their angelic glows, but not anymore!



Don't get me wrong...they were both hot girls, but I realized they weren't superhuman, and that I could carry on a conversation with them just as easily as with anyone else. Reality checked in!

So there's some inspiration for some of you guys. Eventually approaching that HB9 wil be just as easy as a HB7!

Anyone else have this happen?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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