"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just noticed how confident I've become...

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So tonight my friends and I went to a sports bar, and I saw one of my friends from high school there. (We graduated around 5 years ago)

At one point, I liked the girl, cuz she was hottt. Definately my type.

We were never close...actually we were more acquantainces than friends..but I called her name and she gave me an excited hug...and after talking for a second, sat herself down at my table.

Then I noticed...wow, she doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore.

She didn't gain weight. She didn't look any worse. She looked the same! She was hot! But then I thought of something else...

I saw my friend's gf a couple weeks ago, and I always thought she was the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen. When I saw her a couple weeks ago, I was like, yeah, she's ok. I was confused as to how she was soo hot before? (Last time I saw her was nearly a year beforehand)

Then I realized...it's because I became way more confident!

I don't have a problem talking to hot women, and it apparently shows now. I was putting them on a pedestal, and would bask in their angelic glows, but not anymore!



Don't get me wrong...they were both hot girls, but I realized they weren't superhuman, and that I could carry on a conversation with them just as easily as with anyone else. Reality checked in!

So there's some inspiration for some of you guys. Eventually approaching that HB9 wil be just as easy as a HB7!

Anyone else have this happen?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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