"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Just noticed how confident I've become...

underoath777

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2010
Messages
71
Reaction score
0
So tonight my friends and I went to a sports bar, and I saw one of my friends from high school there. (We graduated around 5 years ago)

At one point, I liked the girl, cuz she was hottt. Definately my type.

We were never close...actually we were more acquantainces than friends..but I called her name and she gave me an excited hug...and after talking for a second, sat herself down at my table.

Then I noticed...wow, she doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore.

She didn't gain weight. She didn't look any worse. She looked the same! She was hot! But then I thought of something else...

I saw my friend's gf a couple weeks ago, and I always thought she was the most gorgeous girl I've ever seen. When I saw her a couple weeks ago, I was like, yeah, she's ok. I was confused as to how she was soo hot before? (Last time I saw her was nearly a year beforehand)

Then I realized...it's because I became way more confident!

I don't have a problem talking to hot women, and it apparently shows now. I was putting them on a pedestal, and would bask in their angelic glows, but not anymore!



Don't get me wrong...they were both hot girls, but I realized they weren't superhuman, and that I could carry on a conversation with them just as easily as with anyone else. Reality checked in!

So there's some inspiration for some of you guys. Eventually approaching that HB9 wil be just as easy as a HB7!

Anyone else have this happen?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top