"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just how important is breath when kissing

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jcb1772

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Sup guys, this might come off really stupid but whatever.

I went on a date the other evening with my new girlfriend...before it even started I was considering kissing her. Well after dinner she took me to a lake as it was getting dark (the restaurant was on her side of town so I wasn't familiar with stuff like that). We were in a hyper mood (more so than romantic) but I thought "dang this would be a great place to kiss her."

I did not kiss her. Reason was my breath smelled like @ss...we had pizza earlier and I didn't have time to pop mints because she stayed literally by my side. Please don't tell me to get mints because I definitely had them, and I eat mints all the time...but I figured eating them in front of her (and offering of course) would've given away what my intentions were...and I'm paranoid about ruining surprises.

So just to get a feel here (so I know in the future)...if a good kissing opportunity comes up and you have bad breath...do you still kiss her??
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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apocalypse later

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Chances are, unless you start making out it won't matter. If it's just a short 2-second peck on the lips, there's no way for her to tell. I'd advise having a minty breath if you do plan on using a bit of tongue though.
 
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Charm&Style

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wtf, is your IQ lower than a box of hair??

you rather not pop mints in your mouth because shes by your side and u would give away your intentions...and your intention is...NOT TO HAVE SMELLY BREATH, wtf is so bad about that.

Offer here one too, she is your GF so why the fudge would you care if she knows you wanna kiss her, it should make her feel more relax, especially offering her a mint too.

Next time after you guys eat offere her gum or mint or what ever.



...man, kidds these days are morons.
 
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The Shocker

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She's not your girlfriend bro.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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jcb1772

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No I'm quite smart, thank you...but with women YES I'm still a noob, that's why I lurk here to try to get better (and I have...C&F which I once lacked is now my main tactic and got me this chic)...just need to get better with the physical stuff because I've never had an intimate relationship before (nah really!? heh).

And Charm I'm sorry you think kiddies (and me) are morons but I posted this to get feedback from others who can tell me straight up...and that's what I got, so I'm not going to complain. Clearly I was gay but now I know my mistakes and what to do next time...if it comes and bites me in the @ss with this girl...well...you live and learn.
 
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no offense but i think you have bigger problems then bad breath
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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you could have just asked her if your breath smelled bad, then when she says yes, go grab some mints, then coem back and say how about now and kiss her
 
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