"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just how important is breath when kissing

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jcb1772

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Sup guys, this might come off really stupid but whatever.

I went on a date the other evening with my new girlfriend...before it even started I was considering kissing her. Well after dinner she took me to a lake as it was getting dark (the restaurant was on her side of town so I wasn't familiar with stuff like that). We were in a hyper mood (more so than romantic) but I thought "dang this would be a great place to kiss her."

I did not kiss her. Reason was my breath smelled like @ss...we had pizza earlier and I didn't have time to pop mints because she stayed literally by my side. Please don't tell me to get mints because I definitely had them, and I eat mints all the time...but I figured eating them in front of her (and offering of course) would've given away what my intentions were...and I'm paranoid about ruining surprises.

So just to get a feel here (so I know in the future)...if a good kissing opportunity comes up and you have bad breath...do you still kiss her??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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apocalypse later

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Chances are, unless you start making out it won't matter. If it's just a short 2-second peck on the lips, there's no way for her to tell. I'd advise having a minty breath if you do plan on using a bit of tongue though.
 
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Charm&Style

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wtf, is your IQ lower than a box of hair??

you rather not pop mints in your mouth because shes by your side and u would give away your intentions...and your intention is...NOT TO HAVE SMELLY BREATH, wtf is so bad about that.

Offer here one too, she is your GF so why the fudge would you care if she knows you wanna kiss her, it should make her feel more relax, especially offering her a mint too.

Next time after you guys eat offere her gum or mint or what ever.



...man, kidds these days are morons.
 
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The Shocker

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She's not your girlfriend bro.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jcb1772

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No I'm quite smart, thank you...but with women YES I'm still a noob, that's why I lurk here to try to get better (and I have...C&F which I once lacked is now my main tactic and got me this chic)...just need to get better with the physical stuff because I've never had an intimate relationship before (nah really!? heh).

And Charm I'm sorry you think kiddies (and me) are morons but I posted this to get feedback from others who can tell me straight up...and that's what I got, so I'm not going to complain. Clearly I was gay but now I know my mistakes and what to do next time...if it comes and bites me in the @ss with this girl...well...you live and learn.
 
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no offense but i think you have bigger problems then bad breath
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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you could have just asked her if your breath smelled bad, then when she says yes, go grab some mints, then coem back and say how about now and kiss her
 
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