Hey guys,
I had "tentative" plans w/ a girl I work with and she just called me to cancel. Technically, we didn't have a date, but plans to get together, so maybe I should relax, but still...you know how it goes
Quick recap:Work with her, don't ever see her there though(am leaving in a couple of weeks as well...will prob not see her there due to diff. sched), 2 weeks ago went out and had fun, went to her house that night, I could have done whatever I wanted w/her but didn't due to her drunkeness, left next morn and said I would see her at work, saw her 5 days later, flirted more, said we should hang again, she invited me out again, I said no(didn't feel like it), she also texted me a couple of times, didn't respond to the last one..called her past wed(bout 3 days after last seeing her), left short message, no response from her, called once more yesterday, talked to her about goin out(she always parties on Sun night), said she wasn't goin out, but would Mon(tonight) in all probability, told her to call me, she called me tonight and said she was tired and had to work in the morn(called at 7:45, works in morn @10:30), so she said maybe well hang wed, or she'll call me when shes doing something fun, or vice versa, to which I replied, "I"m always doing something fun" , left it open ended, and said bye.....
Sorry for the structure, but did not want to make this too long.....Any analysis guys? Personally, I feel I've handled everything well to this point and have done nothing wrong. So why the cancellation?
Part of me feels she calculated this move for some reason, part of me feels she is a AW, and the smallest part of me feels she is not too interested(other guys, or whatever). But I do feel she is into me.
Whatever the reason, I am turning away from her and probably will not call her again. I've been confindent, funny, and somewhat of a challenge. For her to take this action, it feels like a slap in the face. Oh well!
I had "tentative" plans w/ a girl I work with and she just called me to cancel. Technically, we didn't have a date, but plans to get together, so maybe I should relax, but still...you know how it goes
Quick recap:Work with her, don't ever see her there though(am leaving in a couple of weeks as well...will prob not see her there due to diff. sched), 2 weeks ago went out and had fun, went to her house that night, I could have done whatever I wanted w/her but didn't due to her drunkeness, left next morn and said I would see her at work, saw her 5 days later, flirted more, said we should hang again, she invited me out again, I said no(didn't feel like it), she also texted me a couple of times, didn't respond to the last one..called her past wed(bout 3 days after last seeing her), left short message, no response from her, called once more yesterday, talked to her about goin out(she always parties on Sun night), said she wasn't goin out, but would Mon(tonight) in all probability, told her to call me, she called me tonight and said she was tired and had to work in the morn(called at 7:45, works in morn @10:30), so she said maybe well hang wed, or she'll call me when shes doing something fun, or vice versa, to which I replied, "I"m always doing something fun" , left it open ended, and said bye.....
Sorry for the structure, but did not want to make this too long.....Any analysis guys? Personally, I feel I've handled everything well to this point and have done nothing wrong. So why the cancellation?
Part of me feels she calculated this move for some reason, part of me feels she is a AW, and the smallest part of me feels she is not too interested(other guys, or whatever). But I do feel she is into me.
Whatever the reason, I am turning away from her and probably will not call her again. I've been confindent, funny, and somewhat of a challenge. For her to take this action, it feels like a slap in the face. Oh well!
