"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Just go approach and talk to them, bro"

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Cliffs:
-group of girls are talking among eachother about a guy (not the cameraman) that they think is cute
-cameraman walks up to the group and says "he is cute"
-no reaction from the group
-cameraman says "i want to meet one of you"
-awkward silence, still no reaction at all
-the group of girls just turn away from him
-cameraman walks off mumbling to himself

Is it safe to say that cold approaching, or PUA is not for everyone?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Payaso

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LOL. The uploader published this video under the "comedy" category.
 

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He opens in their orbit? Lolz!

Auto reject!:p
 

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He is way too direct and scares the girls away. It was not a good opener to ask that he wants to meet one of them. It would be even better when he goes straight to ONE girl in the group and says i want to meet you, wouldn't come off as desperate... But then you need to isolate her from the group with a better opener.
Yeah, when he says I want to meet ONE of you, he's basically saying he wants to get laid, and he doesn't care who, he'll take anyone that's willing. Weak. Makes him look thirsty. Not sure if they knew he was filming it, but if they did notice it, that would be weird too.
 

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It's a bit bizarre. Walks up to a 4 set, tells them that he "wants to meet one of them"
Yep. And the girls response to that was to look at each other confusedly.
A few of the girls actually have the ghost of a smile on their face, but once he repeats it they've had enough.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree that he shouldn't have said "meet one of you," but if you pay attention, these women aren't thinking independently. They just stood in social oblivion and they all started looking at what the other girl was doing in order to decide how to react. This video goes to show how women think as a herd.

Also, a couple of them saw the camera/phone, which may have impacted the approach. And we don't know if there's an age gap or what this guys nonverbal behavior is when he approaches or even how he was dressed or what he looks like. It could have been a number of things.
 

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LOL you walk up to a 4set and wanna know one of them? That means "I am gonna choose one of you, the other 3 are ****".
 
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