"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Just go approach and talk to them, bro"

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Cliffs:
-group of girls are talking among eachother about a guy (not the cameraman) that they think is cute
-cameraman walks up to the group and says "he is cute"
-no reaction from the group
-cameraman says "i want to meet one of you"
-awkward silence, still no reaction at all
-the group of girls just turn away from him
-cameraman walks off mumbling to himself

Is it safe to say that cold approaching, or PUA is not for everyone?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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LOL. The uploader published this video under the "comedy" category.
 
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He opens in their orbit? Lolz!

Auto reject!:p
 
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Sergio88 said:
He is way too direct and scares the girls away. It was not a good opener to ask that he wants to meet one of them. It would be even better when he goes straight to ONE girl in the group and says i want to meet you, wouldn't come off as desperate... But then you need to isolate her from the group with a better opener.
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Yeah, when he says I want to meet ONE of you, he's basically saying he wants to get laid, and he doesn't care who, he'll take anyone that's willing. Weak. Makes him look thirsty. Not sure if they knew he was filming it, but if they did notice it, that would be weird too.
 
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deesade said:
It's a bit bizarre. Walks up to a 4 set, tells them that he "wants to meet one of them"
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Yep. And the girls response to that was to look at each other confusedly.
A few of the girls actually have the ghost of a smile on their face, but once he repeats it they've had enough.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I agree that he shouldn't have said "meet one of you," but if you pay attention, these women aren't thinking independently. They just stood in social oblivion and they all started looking at what the other girl was doing in order to decide how to react. This video goes to show how women think as a herd.

Also, a couple of them saw the camera/phone, which may have impacted the approach. And we don't know if there's an age gap or what this guys nonverbal behavior is when he approaches or even how he was dressed or what he looks like. It could have been a number of things.
 
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LOL you walk up to a 4set and wanna know one of them? That means "I am gonna choose one of you, the other 3 are ****".
 
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