"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just get a High-5

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Many people try to hug girls to get kino BUT! the best way i find to get a girl keep coming back is a little high-5. No Joke, a girl who likes you or shows intrest in you will expose her hand to you. It's something she can't control. If you can't get a high-5 move on she isn't intrested. If she rolls her eyes move on. If she smiles BINGO! I've tried this with about 15 girls. WOW! The results are pretty sweet. 14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES. 10/14 would initiate high-5's. So whats so good about a high-5. In a girls mind she will A. Not expose her hand to anyone she doesn't like, It's kino, and everyone is raised to think High-5's are only fun. Plus it's different if you hug a girl for the first time its very akward. And she'll judge you like a first impression again. With a high-5 she'll smile and keep on doing it. It makes stand out too. If you keep doing high-5's change it up or u'll seem boing on day 3. Do 2 hand 5's , Make her hit both with one. Fun !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I agree. Ive read that in a book and I have always high 5ed people and it works really well. Just go "hey" and put your hand up. Oh and use it when you say bye aswell!
 
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High 5s are the sh*t. Reading this made me laugh.
 
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I don't know many people (guys and girls) that will actually deny a high-5 that aren't complete assh*les. It doesn't necessarily mean the girl is interested.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES.
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lol I guess this isn't really funny, it just sounds like this is your BIG SCORE! you get 14-15 high fives on a REGULAR BASIS!

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Why would I want to touch some other guys hands that probably haven't been washed since he took a piss.
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..ew
 
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i high five a lot at school. The girls seem to love it and now initiate them to me. :up:
 
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Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by GTac01
Yeh this girl at soccer practice kept talkin to me and at the end of the game shes like gj and she high 5'd me. U think she likes me?
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Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Re: Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
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Or she could just be a friendly girl? Just because a girl high-5s you does NOT mean she's interested.
 
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Why do all these people assume that any physical contact is Kino. It's really getting old.
 
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