"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just get a High-5

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Many people try to hug girls to get kino BUT! the best way i find to get a girl keep coming back is a little high-5. No Joke, a girl who likes you or shows intrest in you will expose her hand to you. It's something she can't control. If you can't get a high-5 move on she isn't intrested. If she rolls her eyes move on. If she smiles BINGO! I've tried this with about 15 girls. WOW! The results are pretty sweet. 14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES. 10/14 would initiate high-5's. So whats so good about a high-5. In a girls mind she will A. Not expose her hand to anyone she doesn't like, It's kino, and everyone is raised to think High-5's are only fun. Plus it's different if you hug a girl for the first time its very akward. And she'll judge you like a first impression again. With a high-5 she'll smile and keep on doing it. It makes stand out too. If you keep doing high-5's change it up or u'll seem boing on day 3. Do 2 hand 5's , Make her hit both with one. Fun !
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I agree. Ive read that in a book and I have always high 5ed people and it works really well. Just go "hey" and put your hand up. Oh and use it when you say bye aswell!
 
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High 5s are the sh*t. Reading this made me laugh.
 
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I don't know many people (guys and girls) that will actually deny a high-5 that aren't complete assh*les. It doesn't necessarily mean the girl is interested.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES.
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lol I guess this isn't really funny, it just sounds like this is your BIG SCORE! you get 14-15 high fives on a REGULAR BASIS!

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Why would I want to touch some other guys hands that probably haven't been washed since he took a piss.
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..ew
 
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i high five a lot at school. The girls seem to love it and now initiate them to me. :up:
 
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Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by GTac01
Yeh this girl at soccer practice kept talkin to me and at the end of the game shes like gj and she high 5'd me. U think she likes me?
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Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
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Or she could just be a friendly girl? Just because a girl high-5s you does NOT mean she's interested.
 
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Why do all these people assume that any physical contact is Kino. It's really getting old.
 
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