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Just get a High-5

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The Master Disaster

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Many people try to hug girls to get kino BUT! the best way i find to get a girl keep coming back is a little high-5. No Joke, a girl who likes you or shows intrest in you will expose her hand to you. It's something she can't control. If you can't get a high-5 move on she isn't intrested. If she rolls her eyes move on. If she smiles BINGO! I've tried this with about 15 girls. WOW! The results are pretty sweet. 14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES. 10/14 would initiate high-5's. So whats so good about a high-5. In a girls mind she will A. Not expose her hand to anyone she doesn't like, It's kino, and everyone is raised to think High-5's are only fun. Plus it's different if you hug a girl for the first time its very akward. And she'll judge you like a first impression again. With a high-5 she'll smile and keep on doing it. It makes stand out too. If you keep doing high-5's change it up or u'll seem boing on day 3. Do 2 hand 5's , Make her hit both with one. Fun !
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I agree. Ive read that in a book and I have always high 5ed people and it works really well. Just go "hey" and put your hand up. Oh and use it when you say bye aswell!
 

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High 5s are the sh*t. Reading this made me laugh.
 

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I don't know many people (guys and girls) that will actually deny a high-5 that aren't complete assh*les. It doesn't necessarily mean the girl is interested.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES.
lol I guess this isn't really funny, it just sounds like this is your BIG SCORE! you get 14-15 high fives on a REGULAR BASIS!

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Why would I want to touch some other guys hands that probably haven't been washed since he took a piss.
..ew
 

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i high five a lot at school. The girls seem to love it and now initiate them to me. :up:
 

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Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by GTac01
Yeh this girl at soccer practice kept talkin to me and at the end of the game shes like gj and she high 5'd me. U think she likes me?
Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
Or she could just be a friendly girl? Just because a girl high-5s you does NOT mean she's interested.
 

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Why do all these people assume that any physical contact is Kino. It's really getting old.
 
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