"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Just get a High-5

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Many people try to hug girls to get kino BUT! the best way i find to get a girl keep coming back is a little high-5. No Joke, a girl who likes you or shows intrest in you will expose her hand to you. It's something she can't control. If you can't get a high-5 move on she isn't intrested. If she rolls her eyes move on. If she smiles BINGO! I've tried this with about 15 girls. WOW! The results are pretty sweet. 14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES. 10/14 would initiate high-5's. So whats so good about a high-5. In a girls mind she will A. Not expose her hand to anyone she doesn't like, It's kino, and everyone is raised to think High-5's are only fun. Plus it's different if you hug a girl for the first time its very akward. And she'll judge you like a first impression again. With a high-5 she'll smile and keep on doing it. It makes stand out too. If you keep doing high-5's change it up or u'll seem boing on day 3. Do 2 hand 5's , Make her hit both with one. Fun !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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I agree. Ive read that in a book and I have always high 5ed people and it works really well. Just go "hey" and put your hand up. Oh and use it when you say bye aswell!
 
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High 5s are the sh*t. Reading this made me laugh.
 
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I don't know many people (guys and girls) that will actually deny a high-5 that aren't complete assh*les. It doesn't necessarily mean the girl is interested.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by The Master Disaster
14/15 girls were willing to give me high-5 on A REGULAR BASES.
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lol I guess this isn't really funny, it just sounds like this is your BIG SCORE! you get 14-15 high fives on a REGULAR BASIS!

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Why would I want to touch some other guys hands that probably haven't been washed since he took a piss.
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..ew
 
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i high five a lot at school. The girls seem to love it and now initiate them to me. :up:
 
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Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by GTac01
Yeh this girl at soccer practice kept talkin to me and at the end of the game shes like gj and she high 5'd me. U think she likes me?
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Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Re: Just get a High-5

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
Most Likely if she initiates a High-5 it means she is seeking attention from you and wants to have contact with you. So Most likely she does like you.
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Or she could just be a friendly girl? Just because a girl high-5s you does NOT mean she's interested.
 
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Why do all these people assume that any physical contact is Kino. It's really getting old.
 
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