"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just Friends?

KinkyMan

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after a relationship or dating or something with a girl goes awry, have you ever been put into the just being friends category and been okay with it?

'cause i do need some actually decent good new friends, and i think we could both help each other ..





flame away hehe
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont think she will help me meet any other chicks, she says it would be belittling and awkward to her or me if we tried to help each other on that ...
 

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If she isn't going to introduce you to any of her friends then what is the point of talking to her?
Do you want to go shoe shopping or see a chick flick with her? See my point?
 

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perhaps someone i can talk to whose company i can enjoy? i think i want someone around while i'm studying, which is what we plan on doing.

however i just talked to her and she felt the need to ask me for sure i only wanted friendship, which did annoy me to a great degree
 
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