"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Just Friends?

KinkyMan

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
74
Reaction score
0
after a relationship or dating or something with a girl goes awry, have you ever been put into the just being friends category and been okay with it?

'cause i do need some actually decent good new friends, and i think we could both help each other ..





flame away hehe
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

KinkyMan

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
74
Reaction score
0
i dont think she will help me meet any other chicks, she says it would be belittling and awkward to her or me if we tried to help each other on that ...
 

flexion_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2003
Messages
1,617
Reaction score
10
Age
56
If she isn't going to introduce you to any of her friends then what is the point of talking to her?
Do you want to go shoe shopping or see a chick flick with her? See my point?
 

KinkyMan

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2005
Messages
74
Reaction score
0
perhaps someone i can talk to whose company i can enjoy? i think i want someone around while i'm studying, which is what we plan on doing.

however i just talked to her and she felt the need to ask me for sure i only wanted friendship, which did annoy me to a great degree
 
Top