"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just Friends?

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after a relationship or dating or something with a girl goes awry, have you ever been put into the just being friends category and been okay with it?

'cause i do need some actually decent good new friends, and i think we could both help each other ..





flame away hehe
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont think she will help me meet any other chicks, she says it would be belittling and awkward to her or me if we tried to help each other on that ...
 
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If she isn't going to introduce you to any of her friends then what is the point of talking to her?
Do you want to go shoe shopping or see a chick flick with her? See my point?
 
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perhaps someone i can talk to whose company i can enjoy? i think i want someone around while i'm studying, which is what we plan on doing.

however i just talked to her and she felt the need to ask me for sure i only wanted friendship, which did annoy me to a great degree
 
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