I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lets see, when u are talkin to a girl remember tat after u talk to her u are half way done to bang her.Originally posted by neonlimited
my rep in hs is not bad, i have alot of friends, but i CANNOT just approach a girl cold if my life depended on it, ive tried so much, i dont know what the hell is wrong with me? ive read all the dj bible and TRIED doing it.. what are some tips that help you guys?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hey man which cruise line did you go on? My family is probably going on one this winter and i DO NOT want it to be some fishing boat packed full of geezers and mexicans.Originally posted by AustinG
yea man over the summer i went on a cruise and i approached any hb7+ looking girl cold and it always turned out good. i think it was the " i dont care i will never see them after this week" factor. im the exact same way for some reason when im back at home.