You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lets see, when u are talkin to a girl remember tat after u talk to her u are half way done to bang her.Originally posted by neonlimited
my rep in hs is not bad, i have alot of friends, but i CANNOT just approach a girl cold if my life depended on it, ive tried so much, i dont know what the hell is wrong with me? ive read all the dj bible and TRIED doing it.. what are some tips that help you guys?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hey man which cruise line did you go on? My family is probably going on one this winter and i DO NOT want it to be some fishing boat packed full of geezers and mexicans.Originally posted by AustinG
yea man over the summer i went on a cruise and i approached any hb7+ looking girl cold and it always turned out good. i think it was the " i dont care i will never see them after this week" factor. im the exact same way for some reason when im back at home.