Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
lets see, when u are talkin to a girl remember tat after u talk to her u are half way done to bang her.Originally posted by neonlimited
my rep in hs is not bad, i have alot of friends, but i CANNOT just approach a girl cold if my life depended on it, ive tried so much, i dont know what the hell is wrong with me? ive read all the dj bible and TRIED doing it.. what are some tips that help you guys?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hey man which cruise line did you go on? My family is probably going on one this winter and i DO NOT want it to be some fishing boat packed full of geezers and mexicans.Originally posted by AustinG
yea man over the summer i went on a cruise and i approached any hb7+ looking girl cold and it always turned out good. i think it was the " i dont care i will never see them after this week" factor. im the exact same way for some reason when im back at home.