Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lets see, when u are talkin to a girl remember tat after u talk to her u are half way done to bang her.Originally posted by neonlimited
my rep in hs is not bad, i have alot of friends, but i CANNOT just approach a girl cold if my life depended on it, ive tried so much, i dont know what the hell is wrong with me? ive read all the dj bible and TRIED doing it.. what are some tips that help you guys?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hey man which cruise line did you go on? My family is probably going on one this winter and i DO NOT want it to be some fishing boat packed full of geezers and mexicans.Originally posted by AustinG
yea man over the summer i went on a cruise and i approached any hb7+ looking girl cold and it always turned out good. i think it was the " i dont care i will never see them after this week" factor. im the exact same way for some reason when im back at home.