"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just bumped into ex-BPD with another guy (an aquaintance kind of friend)

PianoGuy33

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Yep, I was waiting for it and there it was. I just walked past my exBPD talking to another guy, one of my friends actually (I'm not too close to the kid, but we have been friends for a while.) ****ing slut, I hate that *****. She wrote me a christmas card with the salutation, Love (her name here). Then she calls me and says that she can't see me anymore, even though we weren't even together. Then I see her walking to a class with this other kid, that I'm actually kind of friends with. I said "hey man, how's it goin?" to him, and then I said hi to her, and I just kept walking. ****ing slut, I hate that *****. I just want to get my game back so I can start focusing on hitting on hotter girls, fuuck just got a lot of bad emotions brought up.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SamTheHobit

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There are an infinite amount of better people. Don't sweat it bro!
 

Die Hard

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You are of much higher value than her and shouldn't lower yourself by spending anymore thoughts or emotions on her. She's scum...

Sure, she looks sweet and she has mastered the skill of building up attraction through her behavior. But that's all there is to her. IN ESSENCE, she is scum...

Next time you take a dump and wipe your ass, take a look at the piece of toiletpaper with sh!t on it. That's her...
*sound of flushing toilet*
 

PianoGuy33

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Ya thanks, you're right Die Hard. I'm gonna do that next time I gotta take a dump lol. Gotta stop wasting my time and my emotions on that psycho! It helps to hear from others who know she's scum, and have been there before.
 
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