"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just bumped into ex-BPD with another guy (an aquaintance kind of friend)

PianoGuy33

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Yep, I was waiting for it and there it was. I just walked past my exBPD talking to another guy, one of my friends actually (I'm not too close to the kid, but we have been friends for a while.) ****ing slut, I hate that *****. She wrote me a christmas card with the salutation, Love (her name here). Then she calls me and says that she can't see me anymore, even though we weren't even together. Then I see her walking to a class with this other kid, that I'm actually kind of friends with. I said "hey man, how's it goin?" to him, and then I said hi to her, and I just kept walking. ****ing slut, I hate that *****. I just want to get my game back so I can start focusing on hitting on hotter girls, fuuck just got a lot of bad emotions brought up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamTheHobit

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There are an infinite amount of better people. Don't sweat it bro!
 

Die Hard

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You are of much higher value than her and shouldn't lower yourself by spending anymore thoughts or emotions on her. She's scum...

Sure, she looks sweet and she has mastered the skill of building up attraction through her behavior. But that's all there is to her. IN ESSENCE, she is scum...

Next time you take a dump and wipe your ass, take a look at the piece of toiletpaper with sh!t on it. That's her...
*sound of flushing toilet*
 

PianoGuy33

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Ya thanks, you're right Die Hard. I'm gonna do that next time I gotta take a dump lol. Gotta stop wasting my time and my emotions on that psycho! It helps to hear from others who know she's scum, and have been there before.
 
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