"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Just bumped into ex-BPD with another guy (an aquaintance kind of friend)

PianoGuy33

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Yep, I was waiting for it and there it was. I just walked past my exBPD talking to another guy, one of my friends actually (I'm not too close to the kid, but we have been friends for a while.) ****ing slut, I hate that *****. She wrote me a christmas card with the salutation, Love (her name here). Then she calls me and says that she can't see me anymore, even though we weren't even together. Then I see her walking to a class with this other kid, that I'm actually kind of friends with. I said "hey man, how's it goin?" to him, and then I said hi to her, and I just kept walking. ****ing slut, I hate that *****. I just want to get my game back so I can start focusing on hitting on hotter girls, fuuck just got a lot of bad emotions brought up.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There are an infinite amount of better people. Don't sweat it bro!
 

Die Hard

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You are of much higher value than her and shouldn't lower yourself by spending anymore thoughts or emotions on her. She's scum...

Sure, she looks sweet and she has mastered the skill of building up attraction through her behavior. But that's all there is to her. IN ESSENCE, she is scum...

Next time you take a dump and wipe your ass, take a look at the piece of toiletpaper with sh!t on it. That's her...
*sound of flushing toilet*
 

PianoGuy33

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Ya thanks, you're right Die Hard. I'm gonna do that next time I gotta take a dump lol. Gotta stop wasting my time and my emotions on that psycho! It helps to hear from others who know she's scum, and have been there before.
 
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