"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just bumped into ex-BPD with another guy (an aquaintance kind of friend)

PianoGuy33

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Yep, I was waiting for it and there it was. I just walked past my exBPD talking to another guy, one of my friends actually (I'm not too close to the kid, but we have been friends for a while.) ****ing slut, I hate that *****. She wrote me a christmas card with the salutation, Love (her name here). Then she calls me and says that she can't see me anymore, even though we weren't even together. Then I see her walking to a class with this other kid, that I'm actually kind of friends with. I said "hey man, how's it goin?" to him, and then I said hi to her, and I just kept walking. ****ing slut, I hate that *****. I just want to get my game back so I can start focusing on hitting on hotter girls, fuuck just got a lot of bad emotions brought up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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There are an infinite amount of better people. Don't sweat it bro!
 

Die Hard

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You are of much higher value than her and shouldn't lower yourself by spending anymore thoughts or emotions on her. She's scum...

Sure, she looks sweet and she has mastered the skill of building up attraction through her behavior. But that's all there is to her. IN ESSENCE, she is scum...

Next time you take a dump and wipe your ass, take a look at the piece of toiletpaper with sh!t on it. That's her...
*sound of flushing toilet*
 

PianoGuy33

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Ya thanks, you're right Die Hard. I'm gonna do that next time I gotta take a dump lol. Gotta stop wasting my time and my emotions on that psycho! It helps to hear from others who know she's scum, and have been there before.
 
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