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This is my mentality. Please feel free to give your opinions.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
JohnChops
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I agree, hence why people feel the need to "warm up" by talking to old people, couples, other dudes, etc before opening up to game women.
In all honesty, I feel like you can fill your head with all this "game" crap but it clutters your mind in the field, anyway. Id rather have a clear peaceful mind when out, instead of thinking, "oh ya that guy BeDJ said if she doesnt give off xyz IOI then she isnt interested, oh I gotta initiate tactic plan Z to get her". Thats to much work man, I just want to have fun, like most of you here.
Women are women, you win and lose, phuck em.
Mentality is everything in anything.
In all honesty, I feel like you can fill your head with all this "game" crap but it clutters your mind in the field, anyway. Id rather have a clear peaceful mind when out, instead of thinking, "oh ya that guy BeDJ said if she doesnt give off xyz IOI then she isnt interested, oh I gotta initiate tactic plan Z to get her". Thats to much work man, I just want to have fun, like most of you here.
Women are women, you win and lose, phuck em.
Mentality is everything in anything.
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BeDJ
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That's your mistake John, you have to look for yxz IOI. It's a common misinterpretation.JohnChops said:
JohnChops
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Let me go spin plates, read the DJBible, and pray to Pook the great g0d. :moon: Brb.BeDJ said:
Agree completely, my game improved when I quit reading and just got in the field. Meditation has been the real key to my social improvement as I can get out of my head and remove the clutter I had before when I read this site everyday.
Also, just talk to girls, no gameplan. Completely remove yourself from outcomes and just chat. They will love this as long as you just stay friendly and bust their chops every so often. Don't take this sh*t so seriously!
Also, just talk to girls, no gameplan. Completely remove yourself from outcomes and just chat. They will love this as long as you just stay friendly and bust their chops every so often. Don't take this sh*t so seriously!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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i tried to get into meditation but it never worked, phuck, everyone says its so relaxing.crossedup said:
Sums it all up perfectly.crossedup said:
Nearly exact same concept behind gaming women and meditating. Involves overcoming the mind and just being present as opposed to trying to make something happen.
Incidentally, I'm terrible at both.
To give an outline of my own meditation if you were to get into it...I began two years ago and nothing happened for a year or so other than relaxation. I didn't notice it crossing over into my everyday life. Then I hit a point in my meditation where I began getting deeper and deeper. I was getting sensations everywhere and I was starting to enjoy my life again (Had been unhappy since high school).
When I truly took off was when I decided to buy Holosync Solution a couple months back. I diligently listen to it every morning and follow the instructions to the letter. My life is improving by the day now. My SA is gone, along with my porn addiction. My bad habits are falling away and I'm becoming more attractive as a person. I would pay 10x what I paid for that program now that I'm using it. Meditation is the real deal, but you have to be consistent and diligent in the practice.
When I truly took off was when I decided to buy Holosync Solution a couple months back. I diligently listen to it every morning and follow the instructions to the letter. My life is improving by the day now. My SA is gone, along with my porn addiction. My bad habits are falling away and I'm becoming more attractive as a person. I would pay 10x what I paid for that program now that I'm using it. Meditation is the real deal, but you have to be consistent and diligent in the practice.
Used to think like this, but then realized chatting means feeding their ego while their boyfriend gets to plow them at night.crossedup said:
You can be social and chat, but it should lead to something. A phone number, a date, sex, whatever. You have to close the deal.
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I honestly just don't give a **** anymore. What people would say to me, what they think of me what they I think they would say behind my back. I am living this life up i'm tired of thinking and procrastinating
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mr Wright
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I've found that working on one thing at a time really helps. Being social yes, but once you're out, you still have to have a goal. It's like having a map and heading in a direction rather than randomly following a path and hoping for the best. In my experience the proof has been in the pudding, when I've set myself out with small goals, I've succeeded more when I've taken the initiative to actually do something. It's like when I used to go out on my own, I was forced to be social but I also knew for me that it wasn't enough.
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+1.JohnChops said:
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I used to do some Kriya Yoga, because I found it interesting. It was a mix of yoga and meditation. It teaches you to relax, so I found that it really helped me reduce stress, it teaches you how to handle stress, how to relax when you are stressed.JohnChops said:
But just to sit down and meditate, there's nothing wrong with that, but I found the mix of yoga and meditation to be a lot more effective. Plus it gives your body some exercise too, so it's a very holistic experience, seeking health for mind, body, and spirit.