"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just be ripped and rich

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yep they do, i know its a programme, but massimo in the new 365 drama, women in my local area wont shut the hell up about him.

bare in mind he physically and emotionally ransacks the female the star of the show
 

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you don't need to be ripped and rich, just rich is enough, hell forget that, as long you can make then belive in this all you are ok, but then I know some rich guys who wonder if the girl like him for who he is and not for his money, and surprise the op never read the way to test the girl if she is serious about you and not just for what you have
 

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you don't need to be ripped and rich, just rich is enough, hell forget that, as long you can make then belive in this all you are ok, but then I know some rich guys who wonder if the girl like him for who he is and not for his money, and surprise the op never read the way to test the girl if she is serious about you and not just for what you have
This is true...bc dumb Bvtches don’t know any better....but there are multiple problems here LT.

If you just get in shape and make $$$ to get women you’re a douche.... and you’ll be unhappy constantly trying to please others.

If you actually do these things for yourself and are a strong independent male then it is fun for a while to get your ego boosted by women... but LT you end up realizing they’re all just shallow and are just using you. Again this can be fun but LT humans desire deeper connections.
 

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Ripped and rich gets you most of the way there. If you do the ripped and rich path, you must show signs of your wealth. The more ripped and rich you are, the less you have to do with your personality. Women will be selling you if ripped and rich and height is at least average.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finally some practical advice.
 

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Get ripped and stay poor. Women will f— a hot janitor. If you’re rich they’ll just be trying to constantly lock you down. If you’re hot and poor, they’ll hit you up for booty calls in between dates searching for their beta LTR victim.
 

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Get ripped and stay poor. Women will f— a hot janitor. If you’re rich they’ll just be trying to constantly lock you down. If you’re hot and poor, they’ll hit you up for booty calls in between dates searching for their beta LTR victim.
Yeah, but then you're a janitor (nothing against janitors, it's honorable work). I'd rather be rich so I could enjoy a better lifestyle outside of women. Women are not the end all be all of life.
 

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Becoming ripped and rich is harder work than becoming charismatic. But hey, you get the added benefits of being fit and able to afford a bunch of nice stuff. Might as well throw social skills into the mix and get early results while working on getting ripped and rich.
 

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This is true...bc dumb Bvtches don’t know any better....but there are multiple problems here LT.

If you just get in shape and make $$$ to get women you’re a douche.... and you’ll be unhappy constantly trying to please others.

If you actually do these things for yourself and are a strong independent male then it is fun for a while to get your ego boosted by women... but LT you end up realizing they’re all just shallow and are just using you. Again this can be fun but LT humans desire deeper connections.
This is true...bc dumb Bvtches don’t know any better....but there are multiple problems here LT.

If you just get in shapae and make $$$ to get women you’re a douche.... and you’ll be unhappy constantly trying to please others.

If you actually do these things for yourself and are a strong independent male then it is fun for a while to get your ego boosted by women... but LT you end up realizing they’re all just shallow and are just using you. Again this can be fun but LT humans desire deeper connections.
Agree. Do it for yourself. I also don’t believe women are all that attracted to money & being jacked. You need more. But, it will help on the margins.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don’t forget to enjoy the present moment. I’ve personally witness many tragedies in life where someone had a 25 year plan all mapped out and they die. They were so close to their ultimate dreams. But as soon as they were before the finish line, the universe pulled the cord.

Another tragedy is someone finally achieved that goal, and then they get terminal cancer or some life ending disease.

This is a harsh lesson from the universe to live in the present moment.

To me it’s the journey/process of becoming great that is important in life. I love the process. It builds momentum and makes you feel fulfilled and purposeful.

Build enough momentum, and surround yourself with enough like minded people and it becomes full blown passion.

This is why your environment is so important. Sometimes all it takes is a change of environment. You’ll know when it’s time. When everyone is holding you back. A little voice inside your head will tell you it’s time to leave. In truth, the people pulling you back are doing you a favor. They unconsciously know you are better off moving on and so they react to it by being annoying to you. So thank them. And then move on.

However, don’t expect an easier time in life just because you are in greener pastures. This is a mistake. This new environment will come with its own set of challenges that you are now ready for.

Even when you think you’ve made it, you will just be presented with a new set of challenges.

So you never really make it. It’s an illusion. So learn to enjoy every step of the way.

Young people think there is an end game. Older people knows the game of life goes on forever.
It's good that you mentioned death. The concept of death shouldn't be forgotten or burried down deep inside of our subconscious. It's so essential. Death literally connects us humans as much as life does. By knowing that the clock is ticking and time is scarce, we feel more empathetic towards fellow human beings and more passionate about life.

We go through life on autopilot and barely notice anything outside of our comfort zone/bubble. Our perspectives and concepts of the world are hardened and set in stone. We need to be more attentive and open towards our surroundings.
 

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Or just learn NLP techniques and be able to bang literally ANY hot young girl you want :)

(only kidding obviously, but I saw people saying that on the girlschase forum and it legit cracked me up laughing at some of their claims of success and how they can 'influence' any girl tot bang them using NLP etc! haha. Some seriously deluded PUA's out there)
 

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Ripped and Rich are both such strong words..

In above average shape with an adequate amount of disposable income (subjective) are more practical.
 

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Don’t forget to enjoy the present moment. I’ve personally witnessed many tragedies in life where someone had a 25 year plan all mapped out and they die. They were so close to their ultimate dreams. But as soon as they were before the finish line, the universe pulled the cord.

Another tragedy is someone finally achieving that goal, and then they get terminal cancer or some life ending disease.

This is a harsh lesson from the universe to live in the present moment.

To me it’s the journey/process of becoming great that is important in life. I love the process. It builds momentum and makes you feel fulfilled and purposeful.

Build enough momentum, and surround yourself with enough like minded people and it becomes full blown passion.

This is why your environment is so important. Sometimes all it takes is a change of environment. You’ll know when it’s time. When everyone is holding you back. A little voice inside your head will tell you it’s time to leave. In truth, the people pulling you back are doing you a favor. They unconsciously know you are better off moving on and so they react to it by being annoying to you. So thank them. And then move on.

However, don’t expect an easier time in life just because you are in greener pastures. This is a mistake. This new environment will come with its own set of challenges that you are now ready for.

Even when you think you’ve made it, you will just be presented with a new set of challenges.

So you never really make it. It’s an illusion. So learn to enjoy every step of the way.

Young people think there is an end game. Older people knows the game of life goes on forever.
Gandalf...? Is that you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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