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All this mental masturbation **** just be rich and ripped ****s. That's what gets chicks. When your ripped and rich girls just jump on your ****
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This is true...bc dumb Bvtches don’t know any better....but there are multiple problems here LT.you don't need to be ripped and rich, just rich is enough, hell forget that, as long you can make then belive in this all you are ok, but then I know some rich guys who wonder if the girl like him for who he is and not for his money, and surprise the op never read the way to test the girl if she is serious about you and not just for what you have
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah, but then you're a janitor (nothing against janitors, it's honorable work). I'd rather be rich so I could enjoy a better lifestyle outside of women. Women are not the end all be all of life.Get ripped and stay poor. Women will f— a hot janitor. If you’re rich they’ll just be trying to constantly lock you down. If you’re hot and poor, they’ll hit you up for booty calls in between dates searching for their beta LTR victim.
This is true...bc dumb Bvtches don’t know any better....but there are multiple problems here LT.
If you just get in shape and make $$$ to get women you’re a douche.... and you’ll be unhappy constantly trying to please others.
If you actually do these things for yourself and are a strong independent male then it is fun for a while to get your ego boosted by women... but LT you end up realizing they’re all just shallow and are just using you. Again this can be fun but LT humans desire deeper connections.
Agree. Do it for yourself. I also don’t believe women are all that attracted to money & being jacked. You need more. But, it will help on the margins.This is true...bc dumb Bvtches don’t know any better....but there are multiple problems here LT.
If you just get in shapae and make $$$ to get women you’re a douche.... and you’ll be unhappy constantly trying to please others.
If you actually do these things for yourself and are a strong independent male then it is fun for a while to get your ego boosted by women... but LT you end up realizing they’re all just shallow and are just using you. Again this can be fun but LT humans desire deeper connections.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They'll happily "use" you. It'sAgree. Do it for yourself. I also don’t believe women are all that attracted to money & being jacked. You need more. But, it will help on the margins.
It's good that you mentioned death. The concept of death shouldn't be forgotten or burried down deep inside of our subconscious. It's so essential. Death literally connects us humans as much as life does. By knowing that the clock is ticking and time is scarce, we feel more empathetic towards fellow human beings and more passionate about life.Don’t forget to enjoy the present moment. I’ve personally witness many tragedies in life where someone had a 25 year plan all mapped out and they die. They were so close to their ultimate dreams. But as soon as they were before the finish line, the universe pulled the cord.
Another tragedy is someone finally achieved that goal, and then they get terminal cancer or some life ending disease.
This is a harsh lesson from the universe to live in the present moment.
To me it’s the journey/process of becoming great that is important in life. I love the process. It builds momentum and makes you feel fulfilled and purposeful.
Build enough momentum, and surround yourself with enough like minded people and it becomes full blown passion.
This is why your environment is so important. Sometimes all it takes is a change of environment. You’ll know when it’s time. When everyone is holding you back. A little voice inside your head will tell you it’s time to leave. In truth, the people pulling you back are doing you a favor. They unconsciously know you are better off moving on and so they react to it by being annoying to you. So thank them. And then move on.
However, don’t expect an easier time in life just because you are in greener pastures. This is a mistake. This new environment will come with its own set of challenges that you are now ready for.
Even when you think you’ve made it, you will just be presented with a new set of challenges.
So you never really make it. It’s an illusion. So learn to enjoy every step of the way.
Young people think there is an end game. Older people knows the game of life goes on forever.
Gandalf...? Is that you?Don’t forget to enjoy the present moment. I’ve personally witnessed many tragedies in life where someone had a 25 year plan all mapped out and they die. They were so close to their ultimate dreams. But as soon as they were before the finish line, the universe pulled the cord.
Another tragedy is someone finally achieving that goal, and then they get terminal cancer or some life ending disease.
This is a harsh lesson from the universe to live in the present moment.
To me it’s the journey/process of becoming great that is important in life. I love the process. It builds momentum and makes you feel fulfilled and purposeful.
Build enough momentum, and surround yourself with enough like minded people and it becomes full blown passion.
This is why your environment is so important. Sometimes all it takes is a change of environment. You’ll know when it’s time. When everyone is holding you back. A little voice inside your head will tell you it’s time to leave. In truth, the people pulling you back are doing you a favor. They unconsciously know you are better off moving on and so they react to it by being annoying to you. So thank them. And then move on.
However, don’t expect an easier time in life just because you are in greener pastures. This is a mistake. This new environment will come with its own set of challenges that you are now ready for.
Even when you think you’ve made it, you will just be presented with a new set of challenges.
So you never really make it. It’s an illusion. So learn to enjoy every step of the way.
Young people think there is an end game. Older people knows the game of life goes on forever.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Solid OP. That about sums it up.All this mental masturbation **** just be rich and ripped ****s. That's what gets chicks. When your ripped and rich girls just jump on your ****