"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Just asked her out and she said "maybe in February, this semester is busy"

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Black Widow Void

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Hate to say it, but you received a polite brush off (we all get them from time to time) .

I wouldn't reply, but if you feel you must... say something like

"Feb. is cool. We should make plans for the 29th"

(and for those reading that don't get it, there's not a 29th on the upcoming February)
 

Machine10033

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Like others have said nuke her from your mind . That’s a complete blow off.... there isn’t a human alive with a schedule that occupied. Don’t acknowledge her... don’t say hi to her.. don’t respond to her texts or calls.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Poonani Maker

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Tell her, "You can ask ME out on our 100th date."
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
No comment. #nextSet #micdrop

Imagine if Dicaprio texted her. Would she say she's busy? Would Cobra Tate wait? Comply or bye.



Check Mystery Method. Compliance is king. Read the System by Doc Love. Interest level is king.

You, the man makes space for her, the girl to follow your lead. You leave breadcrumbs and lead her back to your gingerbread house. Or next. Repeat till d falls off or dead.

There's hotter girls are turning 18 19 20 21 every day. Real talk.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Like others have said nuke her from your mind . That’s a complete blow off.... there isn’t a human alive with a schedule that occupied. Don’t acknowledge her... don’t say hi to her.. don’t respond to her texts or calls.
+1

***** is dead to you.

If she’s hit by a mack truck, you are too busy hitting on baeeeees and crushing vagina to attend said skanks funeral.

Op, you need to be RUTHLESS. BECOME A MERCENARY. i didnt say VIOLENT but there should be no ambiguity about your ABILITY AND AFFINITY TO SUCH FEATS.
 

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Just the fact that ur thinking about this so contemplatively is already a loss..

Any hesitation/anxiety or analyzing things with women means ur desire for them is greater for their desire than u.. no matter what, these type of situations usually dont wrok well for the dude.

my 2 cents
 

flowtheory

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Any hesitation/anxiety or analyzing things with women means ur desire for them is greater for their desire than u.. no matter what, these type of situations usually dont wrok well for the dude.
That’s a really great point. Because it immediately makes a man emotional and that’s when he’s already given away his power. Anytime I’ve been anxious with a specific woman it hasn’t gone well. Anytime I’ve been cool it’s gone well. And the difference is the woman made it so easy for me in the latter. No drama.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Not necessarily a bad things as we all know seduction is a game.

Advice?

Thanks.

Ideas:

1) Reply with: Sure, if I still remember you in February/Ha ha, I will probably forget by then.
2) Ask again in a month'ish

Bad ideas:
1) Reply with: okay, I will ask you again in February
2) Wait until Feb and then ask her out again then
OP, you've been rejected.

It's November bro. Do you realize she'll be busy with Chad, Tyrone, Enrique, Vishnu, Hiroshi, Richard, Shane, Justin, and Chang?

Cut her off. Hell she cut you off and wants you to chase. Would she make this excuse if you were Lebron James or Elon Musk? Hell no. She'd have a room ready if they asked her out.

Cut her off. Delete her number. She's interested only if you're a chasing orbiter. You need to lead. If she don't follow or swallow, delete her. She already deleted you and is trying to get with her personal trainer. Don't talk to her anymore unless she calls you with a request to meet up, even then don't spend any money on her. Make her swallow your cüm in the car before going anywhere.

Reward good behavior. Punish bad behavior. Simp motherf**kers keep rewarding bad behavior with attention and gifts. Entitlement is at a big high now because of this.

Case closed.
 

Bigpapa

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Just reply “ sure . Give me a shout then “ and that”s it . Do not engage with her anymore . Is a brush off and if you continue you will become more and more unattractive .

the only way forward is to forget about her and let her come to you if she has any interest
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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I changed my mind. You are now downgraded to boot call.

Trolling as a hobby. Block delete.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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